Mentor: The Kid & The CEO

Title – Mentor: The Kid & The CEO, A Simple Story of Achieving Significance

Author – Tom Pace with Walter Jenkins

Publisher – Edmond: MentorHope Publishing, 2007

A friend living in one of the Idaho Falls Rescue Mission shelters handed me this book to read.  It was given to him in prison.  He has read it several times.

It is the story of a young man who gets arrested after stealing beer from the store.  While in jail during group therapy, an older man establishes a friendship with him.  He gives him a book to read.  This turns into a mentoring relationship that changes the young man’s life.

If you have a short attention span, this book is for you.  The book teaches in crisp, clear, short chapters.  At the bottom of every page, there are simple action steps.  The conclusion of the book contains an (1) invitation to find a mentor and be a mentor, (2) a list of daily imperatives for improving your life, and (3) a list of books to read.

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IFRM Stories of Hope

Friends.

In an Idaho Falls Rescue Mission office in the city downtown, John Howze has been posting a weekly story on the IFRM facebook page.

Here is my nudge of encouragement to you:

  1. Like the IFRM facebook page so that you may receive these inspiring stories of hope that give glory to Jesus.
  2. Share with others these stories.
  3. Pray for the men and women who are having their lives shared publicly before you.

May Jesus reign in hearts in our river city,

Todd Wood

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Introduction to Meth Addiction

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I checked out this book from the junior section of our city library.

Title – Crystal Meth (IFPL# – 616.84 IORIZZO)

Author – Carrie Iorizzo

Publisher – Crabtree Publishing Company, 2012

Facts – (1) “An estimated 20 percent of all people who try meth will become hooked.” (2) “Meth is considered rural America’s number one illegal drug of choice.” (3) “A batch of meth can be made in as little as six hours using common kitchen pots, pans, and other equipment.” (4) “An ounce of meth (30 grams) costs around $700.  A gram (0.1 ounces) costs around $100 and a quarter gram costs about $25.”

People try meth because of the fun “superhero” euphoric feelings but there is a crash and burn:  destruction of the brain chemistry, teeth decay, paranoia, and unhealthy actions, etc.

Resource websites:  Above The Influence, Teens & Drug Abuse, Find Treatment through SAMHA, The Montana Meth Project, and Narcotics Anonymous

And here are three videos that I watched.

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Sam Minsky discusses meth addictions.  And four people, Lisa, Robert, Mike, and Cody, share the recovery journey.  They talk about the initial highs but then how it all went from a love affair to a bad marriage.  The treatment is marked by a “pink cloud-honeymoon stage-I’m clean-this is exciting” to the battle against triggers and residual effects lasting up to 2 years.

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In the first segment of this video, Mary covers the effects of  (1) alcohol, (2) nicotine, (3) marijuana, (4) inhalants, (5) GHB, (6) heroin, (7) hallucinogens, (8) ecstasy, (9) cocaine, and (10) methamphetamine.  In the second segment, she proclaims hope and rebuilding through the gospel of Jesus Christ.  She has founded the organization, Mothers Against Methamphetamine

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This is Mary’s second video, produced in 2006 to go along with her book.  She also has a video for teens, “The High is a Lie!

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What difference do it make?

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Title – What difference do it make?  Stories of Hope and Healing

Authors – Ron Hall, Denver Moore, and Lynn Vincent

Publisher – Nashville:  Thomas Nelson, 2009

This book is the sequel to Same Kind of Different as Me.  And the stories in this book will bless you just as much as the first book.  Ron shares how his relationship and ministry with Denver progressed.  Also, he opens up about his own difficult relationship with his father.  Denver provides more homespun wisdom in how to live with the love of Jesus among those who are hurting.  Sprinkled throughout are the new stories of others, inspired by Ron and Denver’s original story.  The ripple effect is stunning, bringing glory to God.

Here are some quote highlights:

“Even though you is still a human bein inside, even though you mighta been a little boy once with a mama, even though you mighta been married once with a house and a job, now you ain’t nothin.  And once that happens, people rather come up and pet a stray dog than even say hello.”  – Denver, p. 8

“Now, there ain’t no two ways about it:  some homeless folks is just plain ol’, no-account lazy.  I don’t mean to be bad-mouthin nobody, but that’s the truth.  On the other hand, though, there’s a whole lotta homeless that got that way ’cause they kept tryin and tryin, and no amount a’ tryin they done ever amounted to much.” – Denver, p. 43

“See, we don’t need to be tryin to drag the homeless, or any kinda needy people, to ‘programs,’ to ‘services.’  What people needs is people.  And needy people don’t need no perfect people neither.” – Denver, p. 45

“If all the Christians–I mean all of ’em-got outta the pews on Sundays and into the streets, we’d shut the city down.  We’d shut down hunger.  We’d shut down loneliness.  We’d shut down the notion that there is any such of a thing as a person that don’t deserve a kind word and a second chance.” – Denver, p. 56

“To really help, you’ve got to get down in the pit with people and stay with them until they find the strength to get on your shoulders and climb out.  Helping someone is when you find out how to help them move toward wholeness and then hang with them until they make a change.” – Ron, p. 59

“When you give a homeless man a dollar, what you really sayin is, “I see you.  You ain’t invisible.  You is a person.”  I tell folks to look at what’s written on all that money they be givin away; it says “In God We Trust.”  You just be the blessin.  Let God worry about the rest.” – Denver, p. 70

“Now whatever drove them to the streets from the get-go is a problem, and whatever they is usin to escape is a problem.  So now they got two problems.” – Denver, p. 73

“I’m glad the problem of homelessness is on the government’s radar.  It’s just that the problem of homelessness will never be solved by government.  That’s because government can put a roof over a man’s head and food in his mouth and even give him a job.  But government can neither love a man and lovingly hold him accountable.  The chronically homeless, whether homeless through tragic circumstance or through messes of their own making, have a whole constellation of inner issues that food, shelter, and a paycheck won’t fix.  Like Denver says, “If folks like me had the ability to do what folks like you tellin’ us to do, we’d a’ already done it.”  The chronically homeless need love, compassion, accountability, and someone to come alongside them and hold them steady as they limp along the winding, pitted road to wholeness.” – Ron, p. 175

 

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Same kind of different as me (coming movie)

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Title-same kind of different as me

Authors-Ron Hall (living) & Denver Moore (now in heaven) with Lynn Vincent

Publisher-Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2006

The book is a literary gem of storytelling.  It weaves together the two stories of a very unlikely pair:  Ron Hall and Denver Moore.  Denver is homeless in the jungles of the hood.  Ron lives as a millionaire, wining and dining all over the world.  Each draws upon a wealth of personal tragedy and triumph in writing their stories, forging their hearts together in the furnace of affliction.  The book opens a window into gospel rescue mission like nothing else that I have read, instructing your mind, impacting your heart, and moving you into action.  People might ask, “Why spend some of your time at a Gospel Rescue Mission?”

Rescue work pulls people up out of nastiness.  It slowly peeled back the layers of bitterness in Denver and melted his ugly heart of stone.  Likewise, Ron had his eyes opened to his own condescending pride and superficial lusts.  Mission work strips away secondary and tertiary issues and focuses fundamentally on loving one another.  Denver loved the unlovable and became the prayer warrior.  Ron laid aside opportunities for making more money and invested his life in what is priceless:  friendships forever.  Gospel work pushes to the forefront the desperate, daily need for all of us.  Every day, we need to be connected to gospel grace.

Everyone involved in rescue mission work ought to read this book to expand their God-given vision.  Everyone who is curious about volunteering in a rescue mission in their city should read this book to solidify the inward leanings toward loving service in difficult places.

For sharing the message, it gets even better.  A new movie on this true story (wikipedia description) is coming soon to a theater near you.

Here are some actions steps that I suggest for you:

  1. Purchase a hard cover or soft cover listed in Amazon.  Many of the copies are being listed for 1 cent.
  2. Encourage some of your friends to read this book with you.  Spread the word on this New York Times Bestseller.  Discuss it.
  3. Visit the nearest gospel rescue mission operating in your city.
  4. Promote the new movie, soon to be released, among your church groups.
  5. Adopt the men, women, and children from the rescue mission shelters into your church families.  Commit yourself to some “frientoring”.

Some quotes among many in the book that impacted me personally:

“I ain’t gon’ sugarcoat it: The streets’ll turn a man nasty” (4) – Denver.

“Now sin is when you misses the mark that Gaw-ud is aimin for you to hit,” he’d say. “Bein’ lazy is sin ’cause Gaw-ud is aimin for you to be diligent.  Bein foolish is a sin ’cause Gaw-ud is aimin for you to be wise.  And bein lustful is a sin, ’cause Gaw-ud is aimin for you to be chaste.  Can I get a witness?”  “Amen!” the church would holler. “Praise Jesus!” (28) – Denver.

“I have learned that even with my $500 European-designer bifocals, I cannot see into a person’s heart to know his spiritual condition.  All I can do is tell the jagged of my own spiritual journey and declare that my life has been the better for having followed Christ” (61) – Ron

“Sometimes it’s drinkin or drugging that lands a man on the streets.  And if he ain’t drinkin or drugging already, most fellas like me start in once we get there.  It ain’t to have fun.  It’s to have less misery.  To try and forget that no matter how many “partners in crime” we might hook up with on the street, we is still alone” (73) – Denver

“Driving home, she reflected aloud on how society generally regards the homeless as lazy and foolish, and maybe some were.  But she felt there was so much more below that surface image:  dysfunction and addiction, yes.  But also gifts—like love, faith, and wisdom—that lay hidden like pearls waiting only to be discovered, polished, and set” (85) – Ron commenting on his wife

“Most people don’t want the homeless close to em—think they’re dirty, or got some kinda disease, or maybe they think that kind of troubled life gon’ rub off on em.  They come at Christmas and Easter and Thanksgivin and give you a little turkey and lukewarm gravy.  Then they go home and gather round their own table and forget about you till the next time come around where they start feelin a little guilty ‘cause they got so much to be thankful for” (93) – Denver

“Her goal was changed lives, healed hearts.  Broken men and women rejoining the ranks of the clean and sober, moving out to places of their own, spending Sundays in the park with their families” (95) – Ron commenting on his wife

“So, Mr. Ron, it occurred to me: If you is fishin for a friend you just gon’ catch and release, then I ain’t got no desire to be your friend. . . . But if you is lookin for a real friend, then I’ll be one.  Forever” (107) – Denver

“She just loved em, no strings attached” (131) – Denver commenting on Debbie Hall

“There’s somethin I learned when I was homeless:  Our limitation is God’s opportunity” (169) – Denver Moore

“There’s something special about a river, something spiritual that I believe goes all the way back to the river Jordan” (199) – Denver

“Just tell em I’m a nobody that’s tryin to tell everybody ‘bout Somebody that can save anybody” (231) – Denver

“But I found out everybody’s different—the same kind of different as me.  We’re all just regular folks walkin down the road God done set in front of us.  The truth about it is, whether we is rich or poor or something in between, this earth ain’t no final restin place.  So in a way, we is all homeless—just workin our way toward home” (235) – Denver

Brief videos:

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Todd Wood, pastoral counselor and coach with the Idaho Falls Rescue Mission, connected with the Association of Gospel Rescue Missions.

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Winter Walk Support

This last Saturday, I walked the downtown Idaho Falls temple loop repeatedly from 7:30 am to 5:30 pm for a total of 28.66 miles in support of the homeless.

I saw one of the guys from The ARK transitional shelter biking to work . . .

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I thought of the veterans in town who were homeless . . .

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I met a few critters along the way . . .

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It ended up being a beautiful day.

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Thanks to neighbors and church family friends for the cash and check gifts for the Idaho Falls Rescue Mission.  And thanks to Uncle Benny’s Pizza, Jalisco’s Mexican Restaurant, and the Republic for gift certificates.

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Kind Responses to the Homeless in Idaho Falls

In the book, Same Kind of Different as Me (2006), Denver Moore said, “Most people don’t want the homeless close to em–think that they’re dirty, or got some kind of disease, or maybe they think that kind of troubled life gon’ rub off on em.  They come at Christmas and Easter and Thanksgivin and give you a little turkey and lukewarm gravy.  Then they go home and gather round their own table and forget about you till the next time come around where they start feelin a little guilty ’cause they got so much to be thankful for.

What do you do when you see a guy carrying a cardboard sign at Walmart and in need of food?

  • Pick up meal tickets at the main office of the Idaho Falls Rescue Mission.  Hand them to people that you see on the streets.  Supper is served every night at 6 pm.  Men, women, and children are able to eat a hot meal there.  (Lunch is served every day at the Soup Kitchen.)
  • They are also able to pick up food boxes.

What if someone needs a warm place to sleep for the night?

  • Emergency shelter with IFRM:  (1) for the men, it’s the City of Refuge, (2) for the women and children, it’s Evergreen.  

What if they ask for money?

  • I have taken some to gas stations and filled up their tanks.  I have helped pay utility bills.  I have sat down with homeless in truck stops or burger joints and shared a meal.  In the most simple ways, I have given out quarters to men; I shake their hands as I watch them head straight to Midget Mart or Tobacco Junction for some smokes.  I know that nicotine leads to COPD and lung cancer, but I also am in favor of extending little acts of kindness in the midst of bitterly cold days in Idaho.

What if you would like to get more involved with helping the homeless?

  • Connect with the Idaho Falls Rescue Mission facebook page.
  • Request to receive newsletters and mission mailings.
  • I have free chunks of time on Thursdays, Fridays, or Saturdays to take you on a tour of the Idaho Falls Rescue Mission:  the five shelters and two thrift stores.  Let me or one of the staff give a you a vision for the city.
  • Meet the IFRM staff spread throughout town.  Know what each of them do.  Start praying for them.
  • Regularly serve a meal to the point that you start getting to know the names of the regular homeless people who come to eat.
  • Bring your stuff not being used to the thrift stores.
  • Generously give to IFRM.  Let there be the abundant flow of financial grace giving.
  • Request a IFRM ambassador to come speak to your local congregation.  What if every church in Idaho Falls adopted one to five homeless people in our community?
  • What if you ended up finding a homeless person in town and loving them for life?
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Winter Walking the Temple Loop

This Saturday, January 30, 2016 is the “Homeless Stand Down” at the Veterans Memorial Hall.  As we think about the homeless in Idaho Falls, I will be walking the Temple Loop.  I appreciate how neighbors, church friends, and some of the businesses in town are financially contributing to the welfare of those who are hurting and homeless.  Some friends are supporting a certain amount for every mile that I walk this Saturday.  There is hope for those who walk alone in the Idaho winter.  The entirety of the gifts will go directly to the Idaho Falls Rescue Mission.

Todd Wood, pastoral counselor and coach with IFRM

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Unselfish: Love Thy Neighbor as Thy Selfie

Title:  Unselfish:  Love Thy Neighbor as Thy Selfie (IFPL # – 177.7 Parkinson)

Stories compiled by Paul D. Parkinson

Publisher:  www.unselfishstories.com, 2015

The author compiles around 90 stories of people who are thinking of others.

Here are some of the many that caught my interest:

  1. Scott Neeson and the Cambodian Children’s Fund (CCF)
  2. Marquis Taylor and Coaching For Change
  3. Zack (Zack’s Schack) and It Feels Great To Give
  4. Veronika Scott and The Empowerment Plan
  5. Wanda Butts and The Josh Project 
  6. Nicholas and Gotta Have Sole Foundation
  7. Nate Shapiro and the American Association for Ethiopian Jews
  8. Lynn Hinkle and Reaching Out From Within
  9. Minnie Ewing and Minnie’s Food Pantry
  10. Kaitlyn Mercy and Project H.O.P.E. (Hold on Pain ends)
  11. Mason Wartman and Rosa’s Fresh Pizza
  12. David and Jared Sagae and Trial Size Donations
  13. Allan Law and Minneapolis Recreation Development (MRD)
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The Soul of Shame

Title:  The Soul of Shame:  Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves (IFPL # – 233.5 Thompson)

Author:  Curt Thompson, M.D.

Publisher:  IVP Books, 2015

Men carry a lot of hidden baggage, related to sinful experiences and/or sinful responses in  their upbringing, their work performance, their marriage intimacy, their parenting, and many other issues holding them captive.  Shame holds it all down lest one becomes vulnerable.  But where vulnerability is allowed, healing begins.

The author should have spent more time with shameful sins and gospel repentance, but I did  find the poignant stories of shame in this book to be very helpful in counseling.  The accounts written by this Christian psychiatrist prove over and over that healing does not ultimately come through medicine but through gospel community.

Here is a highlight of the book:

The more of me that is exposed to another, the greater will be my wounding when I am betrayed.  We deeply long for connection, to be seen and known for who we are without rejection.  But we are terrified of the vulnerability that is required for that very contact.  And shame is the variable that mediates fear of rejection in the face of vulnerability.

The good news!

But in the Trinity we see something that we must pay attention to:  God does not leave.  The loving relationship shared between Father, Son and Spirit is the ground on which all other models of life and creativity rest.  In this relationship of constant self-giving, vulnerable and joyful love, shame has no oxygen to breathe.  The ever-present movement of this three-part, shared relationship toward one another–working with one another, trusting one another, delighting in one another–provides the basis for why God created the world in vulnerability, and then made himself vulnerable in coming to it in Jesus.  This imaged trinitarian relationship is where all healing begins for followers of Jesus.

 

 

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